Whether you're a natural or transitioned woman you want to feel connected to your feminine. The feminine is the most powerful energy in the world!
If you want a shortcut to connecting to your feminine dancing is the ultimate path. Go take some classes either local or online. The most feminine dances include bellydance and ballet. Bellydance has roots in many cultures both Mediterranean, Asian and Middle Eastern and there is a reason why in cultures where the feminine presence is suppressed that bellydance is also suppressed. Because it's a dangerously seductive dance. Seduce yourself. Don't worry about the mirror. Don't even look in the mirror. You have to start somewhere right? Just put on some oriental music, warm up your hips and dance your evening away!